Every Deathday card is inspired by a genuine experience and aims to provide a meaningful moment of comfort for someone experiencing grief.
Fresh, funny, thoughtful and honest, our cards meet people where they are along grief’s journey.
Inside message: How are you holding up? (There is no right answer.) The flowers are gone. The casseroles stopped coming. This card shows up anyway. Most people stop reaching out a few weeks after a loss. The grieving person is left to navigate the hardest part: the long stretch of ordinary life without the person they loved. This card breaks that silence. It says: *I haven't forgotten. How are you really doing?* Perfect for:- Checking in two, three, six months after a loss- The friend who might be acting like they are fine, or feeling bad about actually feeling fine- Anyone who needs to know they're right where they should be on grief's journey Why Deathday Cards?We make cards for the long game of grief-because showing up once isn't enough, and it's never too late to reach out after a loss.
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Inside message: Either way, we can still wear yoga pants. The anniversary of a loss deserves a card. Most people forget the anniversary of someone's loss. Life moves on. But grief doesn't follow a calendar, and the person who lost someone knows exactly what day it is. This warm, gently funny card shows up and says: I remembered. And I'm here. Perfect for:- The anniversary of any loss, one year or ten years later- A friend who lost someone and doesn't know how to say they want to do something to commemorate them- Anyone who needs to know that the person they lost hasn't been forgotten Why Deathday Cards?We believe support shouldn't have an expiration date. This card is for the long game of grief- and the people brave enough to show up for it.
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Inside message: I'm here to support you however you need it. Let's plan something... and you can always change your mind. The anniversary of a death can be one of the loneliest days of the year for someone on grief's journey. This card starts the conversation and helps prepare for that day. This interactive, thoughtful card gives the grieving person in your life something rare: agency. They get to decide how they want to mark the day, and they know you'll show up however they need you to. No guessing. No pressure. Just genuine, open-ended support. Perfect for:- Grief anniversaries of the first year or beyond- The friend who might suffer in silence, not wanting to inconvenience anyone- Anyone who wants to show up in a meaningful and practical way Why Deathday Cards?We make cards that do more than express sentiment- they open a door and keep it open. Because that's what humans need as they grieve.
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Inside message: I'm here to support you however you need it. And you can always change your mind. When the anniversary of a loss approaches, there's no right way to handle it. This card honors both options. The anniversary of a loss can be one of the hardest days of the year, and one of the most overlooked. This warm card shows up for your friend on that day and gives them total permission to handle it however they need to. No pressure. No wrong answers. Just you, showing up. Perfect for:- The anniversary of a loved one's death- A friend approaching their first or recurring grief anniversary- Anyone who needs to know their feelings about that day are completely valid Why Deathday Cards?We make cards for the moments most brands pretend don't exist, including the anniversary of a loss that everyone else may have forgotten.
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Inside message: I remember (with image of elephant). Someone still remembers. And that someone is you. Months after a loss, the world moves on. The messages stop. The check-ins dry up. And the grieving person is left wondering if anyone still thinks about the person they lost, or about them. This card arrives like a hand on the shoulder that says: I haven't forgotten. I'm still here. Perfect for:- Checking in months or years after a loss- The friend who has gone quiet because they think nobody wants to hear about it anymore- The anniversary of a loss that everyone else has moved on from Why Deathday Cards?We make cards for the long game of grief. Because it's never too late to reach out, and showing up later is still showing up.
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Inside message: Your grief doesn't have to look like anyone else's. If you ever feel like you're doing it wrong, you're not. There is no right way to grieve. Grief comes in every shape, size, weight, and color. Some people cry constantly. Some people feel nothing for weeks. Some people laugh. Some people get angry. This card gives the person you love full permission to grieve exactly how they need to- without comparison, without judgment, and without a timeline. Perfect for:- Anyone who might be grieving for the first time- The friend who needs permission to feel what they actually feel- Any stage of grief- early days or years later Why Deathday Cards?We believe all grief is valid in every form it takes. This card is our love letter to everyone who has ever wondered if they were doing it wrong.
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