Every Deathday card is inspired by a genuine experience and aims to provide a meaningful moment of comfort for someone experiencing grief.
Fresh, funny, thoughtful and honest, our cards meet people where they are along grief’s journey.
Inside message: Your grief doesn't have to look like anyone else's. If you ever feel like you're doing it wrong, you're not. There is no right way to grieve. Grief comes in every shape, size, weight, and color. Some people cry constantly. Some people feel nothing for weeks. Some people laugh. Some people get angry. This card gives the person you love full permission to grieve exactly how they need to- without comparison, without judgment, and without a timeline. Perfect for:- Anyone who might be grieving for the first time- The friend who needs permission to feel what they actually feel- Any stage of grief- early days or years later Why Deathday Cards?We believe all grief is valid in every form it takes. This card is our love letter to everyone who has ever wondered if they were doing it wrong.
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Inside message: Tissues, Ice Cream, Memories, Emotional outbursts when you least expect them- Take your TIME now, however that looks for you. Time heals all wounds. But first, tissues, ice cream, and emotional outbursts in the cereal aisle. This card is a warm, funny, deeply knowing wink at the most overused grief platitude of all time. It doesn't dismiss the sentiment, it just makes it real. Because yes, time helps. But first comes all of this. And that's completely okay. Perfect for:- Anyone navigating fresh grief who needs a laugh- The friend who's heard one too many well-meaning platitudes- Any stage of loss, as a gentle, funny reminder that the messy middle is normal Why Deathday Cards?We make sympathy cards that allow grief to be many things. Sometimes it's sweet, and sometimes it comes out of nowhere. And all of it is normal.
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Inside message: How about I come over and just listen? You don't need the perfect words. You just need to show up. Most people don't reach out after a loss because they're afraid of saying the wrong thing. This honest, heartfelt sympathy card does the hard part for you. It admits the awkwardness, and then offers the one thing that actually helps: presence. Perfect for:- Anyone who's ever stood in the card aisle and walked out empty-handed- The friend who wants to show up but doesn't know how- Colleagues, neighbors, or anyone who cares but feels unsure about reaching out Why Deathday Cards?We believe it's never too late to reach out after a loss. This card makes showing up easy, even when you don't have the words.
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Inside message: I'm here for whatever comes up. Expected doesn't mean easy. When someone has been sick for a long time, people often assume the grief will be easier because there was time to prepare. It often isn't. This honest, gentle sympathy card acknowledges that truth, and offers the one thing that actually helps: an open door with no expiration date. Perfect for:- Loss after a long illness- End of life situations where death was anticipated- Anyone whose grief is being minimized because the loss was "expected" Why Deathday Cards?We believe all grief is valid, regardless of the circumstances. This card gives people permission to feel whatever they feel, for as long as they need to.
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Inside message: I remember (with image of elephant). Someone still remembers. And that someone is you. Months after a loss, the world moves on. The messages stop. The check-ins dry up. And the grieving person is left wondering if anyone still thinks about the person they lost, or about them. This card arrives like a hand on the shoulder that says: I haven't forgotten. I'm still here. Perfect for:- Checking in months or years after a loss- The friend who has gone quiet because they think nobody wants to hear about it anymore- The anniversary of a loss that everyone else has moved on from Why Deathday Cards?We make cards for the long game of grief. Because it's never too late to reach out, and showing up later is still showing up.
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Inside message: How are you holding up? (There is no right answer.) The flowers are gone. The casseroles stopped coming. This card shows up anyway. Most people stop reaching out a few weeks after a loss. The grieving person is left to navigate the hardest part: the long stretch of ordinary life without the person they loved. This card breaks that silence. It says: *I haven't forgotten. How are you really doing?* Perfect for:- Checking in two, three, six months after a loss- The friend who might be acting like they are fine, or feeling bad about actually feeling fine- Anyone who needs to know they're right where they should be on grief's journey Why Deathday Cards?We make cards for the long game of grief-because showing up once isn't enough, and it's never too late to reach out after a loss.
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Inside message: I hope you know you've got your chosen family and friends to lean on. Unfortunately, sometimes the way families act after a loss is harder than the actual loss. This card acknowledges that, noting that this is a very appropriate time to lean on a support system outside of biological relatives. Perfect for:- The friend who is struggling with their family dynamics right now- Anyone who's exhausted by sympathy cards that are one size fits all- The person who needs a little extra support in the middle of the hard stuff Why Deathday Cards?Our honest and direct sympathy cards aim to connect through authenticity. Sometimes telling it like it is is the best way to support someone going through a hard time.
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